Safe Man Safe Family works to help families break the cycle of normalised violence SUPPORT OUR WORK Safe Man Safe Family Donate Now! Coming soon! Find out how we can help you It's 'normal' for your partner to give you a fat lip for asking whether he got milk.to hide from your dad after the All Blacks have lost.for mum to wear a scarf in summer to hide the bruises on her throat. This should never be normal.